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Why your abs won't heal (it's not what you think)
Here's what nobody tells you about diastasis recti
Hey gorgeous,
Two years postpartum, I could still fit three fingers into the gap between my ab muscles.
Every crunch I did made it worse.
Every plank deepened the separation.
And I kept doing them anyway because that's what "they" said would fix me, friend.
Here's the lie keeping you stuck (and I believed it for way too long):
"More ab work will fix my diastasis recti."
Wrong. Dead wrong.
Traditional core exercises actually prevent your muscles from reconnecting.
So why do fitness pros keep pushing crunches and planks for postpartum recovery?
Because most of them don't understand how separated abs actually heal.
They just assume "core work" fixes everything.
And it doesn't.
Here's what nobody tells you about diastasis recti:
It's not about building stronger abs. It's about teaching separated muscles to find each other again.
The key? Gentle reconnection, not forced strengthening.
Think rehabilitation, not transformation.
Your deep core needs to wake up before your surface muscles can work properly.
(It's like trying to build a house on a broken foundation – pointless until you fix what's underneath).
Wednesday I'm sharing the 3 gentle moves that started closing my gap – no crunches, no planks, just targeted healing that actually works.
Are you doing abs work that's making your separation worse? Hit reply and tell me what you've been trying.
You're not broken – you just need the right approach, Kai
P.S. That gap in my stomach taught me the difference between working harder and working smarter. Smart healing wins every time.